MARRIAGE WITH BORDERS

No doubt woman are sexual beings, so are men. Female chastity and fidelity necessary for a stable marriage requires a male chastity and fidelity too. But when marriage doesn’t work out the woman is held responsible whereas it’s a union of two. In the case of an unmarried man is called independent or intelligent, whereas a woman who remains unmarried is assumed to be desperate. On the marriage market, women and made to feel low value,perishable goods,to find a taker,whether for marriage or or just for sex.

On marriage ceremonies,her father walks her down the aisle to give her away,and she passes like property,from one man to another. The minister,who is traditionally a man,gives the man permission to kiss the woman as if he has the authority and the woman has none. Hence forth ,the woman will adopt the man’s name,despite all this,THE WEDDING DAY is said to belong to the woman. this would you believe is ‘her day’

4 thoughts on “MARRIAGE WITH BORDERS

  1. It’s simply one of the events in her life …that she has to be married off to a man, by her parents. So too are the groom’s parents marrying their son off to her. Another event will be for her to give birth to a baby….which she must do. So it’s kinda her undeniable experiences in life.

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